5 Ways to Make Healthy Habits Stick—No Willpower Required 

By Sharon Brock, MS, MEd

Diverse group of five women standing arm in arm as they hike a nature trail

If you’ve already given up on your New Year’s resolutions, you’re not alone. Studies show that 88 percent of resolutions are broken within the first two weeks of January, and 95 percent are abandoned by the end of the month. Many people start a protocol on January 1st, stick with it for a couple of weeks, but then drop off and feel like a failure.

Stanford behavior change expert BJ Fogg, PhD, shows us a different way. “Research shows that relying on willpower is not how behavior change works,” says Dr. Fogg, founder of the Stanford Behavior Design Lab. Rather than give up on your health goals after you (inevitably) get off track, Dr. Fogg recommends trying a few of the following strategies to help make your new healthy habits last.

1. Help Yourself Do What You Already Want to Do

Everyone has a part of them that wants to eat healthy and exercise and another part that wants to eat junk food and sit on the couch. We have conflicting motivations. So how can we help the part of ourselves that wants to eat healthy and exercise? Dr. Fogg recommends choosing a healthy habit that you already enjoy doing.

“If you don’t like running, don’t have ‘go for a run every morning’ as your new year’s resolution. There are a hundred other ways to be active, so pick something you already enjoy,” says Dr. Fogg.

It may be helpful to reflect on which healthy habits would work for you in a sustainable way and write down behaviors you already enjoy doing. For example, if walking on a treadmill doesn’t work for you, try walking in nature. Or if you’re not a morning person, don’t set your alarm for 5 a.m. to workout; instead plan to exercise at the end of your workday.

“Most protocols, such as strict diets, don’t work long term because they are too prescriptive,” says Dr. Fogg. “When it comes to behavior change, one size does not fit all. A new habit only sticks when it makes sense at the individual level.”

2. Set the Bar Low

The best way to create a lasting habit is to set the bar low so that you can be consistent with it every day. For example, if you want to start jogging, commit to putting on your running shoes and walking to the end of your driveway and back. If you feel overwhelmed about cleaning your house, commit to tidying up just one piece of furniture every night before bed. If you’re not motivated to floss your teeth, commit to flossing just one tooth. It might sound silly, but making the habit small lowers the amount of motivation required to complete the behavior. With consistency, the behavior becomes a habit that eventually becomes part of your automatic daily routine.

“The key is making the habit so small that you can do it even when you’re sick, busy, preoccupied, or just low motivation,” says Dr. Fogg, explaining the habit-forming technique from his bestselling book, Tiny Habits. “Let’s say the new habit is flossing. You don’t have to stop at one tooth; you can always do more if you feel like it, but it’s not necessary to feel successful. Simply put, you have a minimal habit that you do every day, and when you want to do more, then you do more.”

3. Positive Emotions Create the Habit

It’s important to recognize that habits are created when we feel successful, so the key is to make the feeling of success easier to attain (see Tip #2).  As we are on our habit-forming journey, Dr. Fogg encourages us to feel proud of ourselves even for the tiniest of successes because when we feel good about a new habit, we will become more motivated to keep doing it—and eventually, willpower is out of the picture entirely.

“Most people are so hard on themselves, and they use guilt and shame to establish new habits, but that doesn’t work,” says Dr. Fogg. “They think that identifying their short comings rather than their successes will help motivate them. What works better is finding every excuse to seeing you’re doing a good job so that you continue doing the new habit.”

Also, many of us have heard that it takes 28 days to establish a new habit, however, this theory has been debunked. Dr. Fogg says that if we feel successful at a deep and authentic level, even for the tiny version of the behavior, the habit can form at a much faster rate.

4. Anchor Your New Habit to an Existing Habit

If there’s a habit that you already do every day (I see you, coffee drinkers), you can anchor your new habit to the original one. Dr. Fogg calls this “anchoring” because you’re tying a new habit to something already stable in your life. This technique has also been referred to as “habit stacking”.

Regardless of what you call it, this is what you do. Identify something you already do automatically and then perform the new habit afterward. Here are some examples:

After I make my coffee, I meditate

After I turn on the faucet for my nightly bath, I floss my teeth

After I press “start” on the microwave to heat my lunch, I do 20 jumping jacks and 20 squats

After I turn on the television when I’m done with work, I hop on a stationary bike

Write down a few of the habits you already do automatically and see if you can anchor a new habit after them. The anchoring technique provides a great way to incorporate many new habits simultaneously into your daily routine.

5. Try to Change Together, Not Alone

We’ve all heard of the concept of “accountability buddies,” but Dr. Fogg says this strategy actually works. So, if you have a friend with the same health goals as you, it would be wise to sync up your efforts. For example, if you want to walk for 30 minutes daily, finding a friend to walk with can help you both become consistent. Also, since we now know that positive emotions help establish new habits, try and find a walking companion who adds laughter or interesting conversations to the experience so that you associate walking with feeling good.

Also, Dr. Fogg explains that changing together is especially important in certain domains, such as sleep (i.e., going to bed and waking up at the same time as your bed partner), nutrition (i.e., eating similar meals with other members of your household), and media use (i.e., how much television you and your family watches every night).

 “We can change alone, with a friend or partner, or even with a group,” says Dr. Fogg. “If you want to change as a household, I invite you to hold a family meeting to discuss one behavior change the entire family can agree on for the entire year. Changing with others can make establishing new habits easier and potentially even fun.”